So I figured it out - here's my list of what I want in a husband:

In terms of personality:
- like-minded passions in life; Christian
- kind, selfless, generous, considerate
- able to make me laugh
- romantic
- smart, able to hold a conversation with, high/average EQ (emotional intelligence), clever
- wise
- responsible, but sometimes spontaneous and able to convince me to relax and let loose
- trust worthy
- same taste in music and other interests (sports, traveling,etc.)

In terms of looks:
- taller than me
- broad shouldered

Tall order? Maybe. Give me a few more years to prioritize the list and figure out which are the most important.